people normally tell you "forgive and forget". it's easy when they don't know the situation. even if you don't believe it humans have an instinct to help others. that phrase has become so common it's crazy. the smallest thing can scar you and others look at you like "what a wus". who's worse? a person who killed another or a person that stole a slice of bread from another? you hear situations and normally you put yourself in that place. empathy. put yourself in anothers shoes. we judge others as if we know everything about them and everything about their lives that shaped them into who they are now. if a person can't forgive and forget, maybe it's because they can't. nobody likes to walk around with a huge weight on their back.
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forgiving and forgeting is more easily said than done. trust & believe.
ReplyDeleteForgiving is hard, let alone trying to forget an infliction.
ReplyDeleteI'm loving The Beatles picture you have up: "You're gonna Carry That Weight, carry that weight, a long time!"